Love does not obey
Love is not the product of thought which is the past. Thought cannot possibly cultivate love. Love is not hedged about and caught in jealousy, for jealousy is of the past. Love is always active present. It is not 'I will love' or 'I have loved'.
If you know love you will not follow anybody. Love does not obey. When you love there is neither respect nor disrespect. - Krishnamurti, Freedom from the Known,82