reading list

Baxter, L. A. (1986). Gender differences in the heterosexual relationship rules embedded in
break-up accounts. Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, 3, 289–306.

Emmers, T. M., & Canary, D. J. (1996). The effect of uncertainty reducing strategies on young
couples’ relational repair and intimacy. Communication Quarterly, 44, 166–182.

Feeney, J. A. (2004). Hurt feelings in couple relationships: Toward integrative models of the
negative effects of hurtful events. Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, 21, 487–508.

Feeney, J. A. (2005). Hurt feelings in couple relationships: Exploring the role of attachment
and perceptions of personal injury. Personal Relationships, 12, 253–271.

Kowalski, R. M., Walker, S., Wilkinson, R., Queen, A., & Sharpe, B. (2003). Lying, cheating,
complaining, and other aversive interpersonal behaviors: A narrative examination of the
darker side of relationships. Journal of Social and Personal Relationship, 20, 471–490.

Leary, M. R., Springer,C., Negel, L., Ansell, E., & Evans, K. (1998). The causes, phenomenology,
and consequences of hurt feelings. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 74, 1225–1237.

Planalp. S., & Honeycutt, J. M. (1985). Events that increase uncertainty in personal relationships.
Human Communication Research, 11, 593–604.

Roloff, M. E., Soule, K. P., & Carey, C. M. (2001). Reasons for remaining in a relationship and
responses to relational transgressions. Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, 18,
362–385.

Vangelisti, A. L., & Crumley, L. P. (1998). Reactions to messages that hurt: The influence of
relational contexts. Communication Monographs, 65, 173–196.

Vangelisti, A. L., & Young, S. L. (2000). When words hurt: The effects of perceived intentionality
on interpersonal relationships. Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, 17,
393–424.

Young, S. L. (2004). Factors that influence recipients’ appraisals of hurtful communication.
Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, 21, 291–303.